The funniest thing about the pronoun garbage is that the game completely ignores it. The npcs in game only seem to recognize which walk animation you picked. Nearly everyone in game just calls you guy/girl, even if they haven't seen you at all. It's fucking hilarious.
You can stealth kill someone and the people nearby will start screaming things like, "Where is she!!", "Somebody find her!!", they instantly know which walk cycle you picked.
As for the pronoun garbage itself, it's completely pointless in real life because the demand is about how people speak in the 3rd person. These freaks are so narcissistic that they're demanding to control how you speak about them when they're not around. If you were to speak directly to them, their garbage pronouns would never come up unless you're being overly polite. Even then it just amounts to sir/maam.
It was never about respect. It was always about control.
Also, whoever that heel guy is, he's absolutely right about the whole choice being boring.